Friday, 31 July 2015

My first trip

First international trip hmmmm.....i know first trip of every person is very important for them like i had ,i still remember when i got my tickets so how did i feel, i could not believe that i was going & i was little emotional but also so exited so i made myself confident & started to pack my bags then i heard the silent crying voice of my mother & when i went to her & asked what happened? then she saw my face & hugged me tightly & said take care of youself beta & started to advised me "don't trust strangers during your journey otherwise they can take miss advantage of urs" so then i made her sure yeah Ammi i got your point & started  my trip after my parting with my family when i arrived at airport & see off my family, i got little nervous because my mother was not the only one who scared me from strangers even every single lady of my neighbour & relative scared me because they all are like filmy aunt who rarely travelled but they all  have watched most of the t.v serials & Bollywood movie where thugs fraud innocent girls & finally i got influenced by their doubts but i did not show it to them & entered in the airport
 
                                                           i was at the airport
there i got busy with my travelling procedure & immigration after that i went to the aeroplane & it was a beautiful sight inside.. i saw my seat & sat...that time i was so happy & relaxing myself ..then two ladies came & sat besides me, i saw them then one lady smiled so I also smiled to her & she started to talked to me i was also talking to her but when i was saying something to other lady so she just smiled not to speak & I saw her talking with other lady ..she wore a Saree & looks like Indian & the other lady looks like Malaysian then i spoke few Hindi words with first lady so the other lady replied which made me little uncomfortable because it was unexpected for me that an Indian not speaking Hindi but the Malaysian speak it very well then i remember all the words of my mother & aunts "stay away from strangers" so i started to look outside & saw a beautiful side of this world.. the sky ..the beautiful sky

then the sky getting dark & dark.. everyone is going to sleep there instead of those ladies so i got scared so much, now my doubts turned into reality i saw what i wanted ... i had my laptop & money so like my aunts said "Be Careful" i took it so seriously that time & got scared..i continued kept my eyes on them so could not sleep properly.. i was awake but after few hours i did not know when i fallen asleep?& in morning when i awoke one lady said "good morning"so i smiled & wished her back "morning " then i remembered I should have taken care of my belongings so I checked my laptop & my money & there was my money bag missing i started to looking for it & that lady saw me to finding something & said "hello..are you looking for a bag?" so i saw her quickly & a question was into my mind "how did she know?" my doubts has turned into reality then i replied  "yes"so she told me it's under your foot dear then i found it under my foot & checked my money & it was the same one.. then i felt little ashamed on my thoughts & said thank you with a grateful smile to her.. she said "my pleasure" then i asked why the other lady is not speaking? she told me the other lady is her mother & she is not speaking because she don't know Hindi & English very well.. She belongs to Malaysia properly & she looks Indian because she got married with my Indian father & she likes to wear Indian Saree & Indian look & i can speak Hindi because of my father, he born in India & brought up in Malaysia so he had the knowledge of many languages so that's why she can speak Hindi,english as well as Malay very well & after that when i asked why didn't you sleep last night ?she replied we were but after u because my mother usually feel panic in aeroplane so i had to awaken with her then..i felt so bad but i could not tell them what i was feeling that time & i came to know my aunts were wrong every stranger is not a suspect then i reached to Malaysia & continued my journey with a smile without any more doubts......
                                        i was extremely tired at Malaysia Airport

yeah I was ashamed on my thoughts but it's also true sometimes we act but we actually act on others opinion ...our personality got influenced by other thoughts it's psychology called a "Social Pressure"  sooooo
yes i agree we should be aware but not too much like a police ..i hope you like it & will not repeat it in your first journey
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                                                                                                           my best wishes for u😊

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